How to be an Independent Thinker

How to be an Independent thinker

In American, we pride ourselves on the notion of our independence, while we actively seek out the safety of conformity. A contradiction.

Being independent in thought or any other human activity is hard hard work. You have to insist on challenging yourself to grow beyond the limits of who you were yesterday. There is so much we learn about ourselves and the rest of the world each day.

Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else. Margaret Mead

Starting at the beginning of this century, many of us have decided to define ourselves through mechanisms like politics, religions, and race, confining ourselves and our thinking to that of a group. But we are more complex than this.

“Birds of a Feather flock together” But we are not birds

Our growth as a society has everything to do with our exposing ourselves to new cultures and thinking.

Diversity, this is not what we are talking about.

Diversity, this is not what we are talking about.

 

 

Diversity

This is not what we are talking about.

Being told to take some diversity and inclusion trainings can be like being told to take medicine, ordering food you don’t really want to eat, or being punished. What often happens? Resistance, push back, grumbling…

We have a better way! 

Whether we strategically design and implement a program for you or you attend our Open Conversations On Leadership Diversity and Inclusion Breakfasts (COL D&I), we bring to life diversity and inclusion topics in an engaging way that provides solutions from thought leaders. Gender, workforce challenges, relationships, health care, families, generations, intersectionality…we’re drilling down one distinction at a time…uplifting, inspiring, and informing.

Conversation On Leadership Breakfast

Diversity and Inclusion, how it shows up in the real world.  Monday, Aug 19th Breakfast –  Health Care to Self Care

Diversity And Inclusion Workshop

Diversity And Inclusion Workshop

Diversity And Inclusion Workshop

LESSONS IN PRIVILEGE & BIAS: HUMANITY 101

With Dr. Joel P. Martin And Guest Facilitator, ASU’s Dr. Neal A. Lester

May 24, 2019, 9 am – 4 pm

Hera Hub, 2111 E. Highland Ave, Ste 240 Phoenix, AZ 85016

 

Register Now $199.

Event producer, Dr. Joel P. Martin is dedicated to changing lives, businesses, and communities for the better. She is president of Triad West Inc. a global company which provides customized consulting, coaching, and training services in Transformational Leadership Development, Diversity & Inclusion, Team Buiding, and New Tech Manager Effectiveness. She is also an author, speaker, and the Founder of the Positively Powerful Woman Awards and Programs.

Guest Facilitator Dr. Neal A. Lester is a Foundation Professor of English and Founding Director of Project Humanities at Arizona State University. He has published, lectured, and taught extensively in the area of African American Studies. Among his many accomplishments, his course, “The N-word: An Anatomy Lesson,” the only such course taught in the country, has garnered local, national, and international attention. (Read more)

The morning session, facilitated by Guest Dr. Neal A. Lester, strives to do more than provide short-lived cathartic experiences. Real community and social change, however, begins internally with each individual, ultimately creating new and different ways of thinking, acting and being–long after a workshop. The goal of this workshop then is to engage participants in critical conversations about “difference” that move beyond typical “diversity training” to explore systems in which we all exist. Ultimately, the workshop challenges us to recognize and promote our individual and shared humanity through seven values Arizona State University’s award-winning Project Humanities initiative identifies as Humanity 101—respect, integrity, compassion, kindness, forgiveness, empathy, and self- reflection. The success of the workshop depends on each participant’s willingness to challenge their own assumptions about others and to be self-empowered. This workshop concludes with a discussion of the real social, political, and cultural ramifications of unchecked privilege and bias and will arm participants with strategies and resources to become true agents of change.

The afternoon session, Unconscious / Conscious Disconnect Of Inclusion, facilitated by Dr. Martin is an interactive workshop focusing on the Micro-inequities that separate us…what is it that we are unaware of, as well as those that we are aware of, and what this disconnect is producing in our relationships, communities, and among the workforce. “What to do about it” is presented as a facilitated action strategy dialog. The day will end with an appreciation and discussion of what might be possible when there are no barriers to inclusion.

“Separate as the Fingers, Yet One as the Hand”

 

Who Should Attend:

Open to the public, we ask community leaders, students, organizations’ work groups, members of corporations, entrepreneurs, trainers, and others to join us for this important topic.

The Diversity & Inclusion Workshop is open to the public.

Making personal goals is easy. It’s keeping them that’s hard!

It’s the new year and you’ve promised yourself to keep your goals this year. Now the year is going strong and the good goals you set are getting put on the shelf by something more important in the total scheme of things. Before you know it those great goals you set – those new year resolutions – you decided upon are not only not happening but you feel bad and “beat yourself up”

Big shift: Goals are not set in stone! Life changes. Give yourself a break. New opportunities arise. Love them and move on. The goals you made can change. 

However…if those goals are vital to your business, family, personal well being, and you are stuck on them stay the course. Hire a coach. Get an accountability partner. Find an app that you will use. And then use it. Above all else keep the positive self-talk going! Inspiration is the mother of invention.

How to create a new career with a retirement transition coach

How to create a new career with a retirement transition coach

How to create a new career with a retirement transition coach

There are all sorts of challenges when you’re faced with retirement. The non-financial ones can diminish the financial ones if you’re not prepared. This is where having a dedicated retirement transition coach can reduce the stress of change, give you great ideas, ask questions that open the door to the future or be your accountability partner.

Plan ahead for your new-found freedom

In retirement, there are no reviews, prescribed activities, lunches, work you feel is important to do. That might seem like a wonderful thing now. However plan ahead because otherwise you might find that you’ve wasted the first few years of retirement, fallen into a rut, missed connecting with others, or become a couch potato.

This is where a retirement transition coach is useful. With a retirement transition coach, you’ll be able to take “leaps forward” planning and getting into new work and non-work activities that are meaningful and productive. You’ll have a neutral coach who shares your goals with you and wants you to win in this important time of your life. Remember the work, persistence, and stamina it took to get the career going? Retirement takes work too. You deserve an empowering, experienced, resourceful, success-oriented coach in this transitionary process.